refactor: use module_defaults for proxmox API connection

- Replace YAML merge keys (<<:) with module_defaults block in main.yml
- Simplify connection variables to individual vars instead of dictionary
- Remove redundant connection params from individual task files
- Document standalone task usage requires play-level module_defaults
- Update README examples with new variable pattern

roles/proxmox_lxc_provision/tasks/update.yml

@@ -1,10 +1,9 @@
 ---
 - name: Update an LXC container
   community.general.proxmox:
-    <<: "{{ proxmox_api_connection }}"
     vmid: "{{ lxc_vmid }}"
     hostname: "{{ lxc_hostname }}"
-    password: "{{ lxc_password | default(omit) }}" # Updating password does not work
+    password: "{{ lxc_password | default(omit) }}"
     cores: "{{ lxc_cores }}"
     memory: "{{ lxc_memory }}"
     swap: "{{ lxc_swap }}"